Surely you know at least one person, man or woman, who like everyone. Others listen when they speak and leave his side with a smile in the mouth. And although they are not the most handsome, they bewitch the opposite sex and also often get what they want. They are people who have “something”, that “je ne is quoi” that it seems magical and makes them born seducers.
Charisma is called. In older dictionaries is said to be the person with charisma that is “touched by God” a more modern and pragmatic definition says that charisma is “fascination or charm of some people on the other”.
Then, would perhaps exercising this spell is only within the reach of a few? Clear that no. You just have to learn what might be called the art of being seductive, charming, and unforgettable.
These keys and a little practice will help you overcome fears and beliefs that limit you, learning to show you more relaxed, secure yourself, close to the others and charming:
• He smiles. Remember that the fear of rejection is present in almost all of us. For this reason, smile sends the message that we accept other or he accepts us, and is also contagious. On the other hand, the lack of smile is not neutral: sends a powerful message of rejection.
• It trains the gaze. The seductive people release looks that erased any fear and felt another admired, able to… unique. It’s a look open and expressive, but not impertinent. Attempts to look at an angle, because front and very securely intimidates. If it costs you sustain the gaze, directed to frown. In any case, not turn your eyes because it happens as with the smile: look makes other feel rejected and even invisible.
• Modulate your voice. Scary voices lose air at the end of sentences, and the message throwing is not convincing. But a charismatic voice is strong, flexible and enthusiastic. In addition, that voice improves your emotional state and those who listen to you, and builds confidence. To have better voice can sing, vocalize, record yourself and listen to you then.
• Communicate well. It is that you learn to enjoy interacting with others. If you’re shy, try to focus the attention to ask questions to each other instead of thinking about your fear, and soon you will feel more at ease. In general, attempts to think twice before speaking to have a clear idea of what you want to say and I know fun. I.e., try assertive talk not including repetitions or words vulgar, without forgiveness or contradict you yourself.
• Learn to listen. Of all the qualities of a charismatic person, this is what most impacts. We live in a fast world where the haste and lack of communication make that interactions are often superficial. If you become a person that knows listen, pay attention to others while you are with them, opening you really to what they have to say and interesting you by what they tell you, rest assured that you will not forget.
• Take care of your image. It is not that you seen Couture, but that take a bit of psychology to your grooming. Thus, with only look at you, others will know what you want to convey. It’s like a filter. And vary your image whenever you want: it is not the same dress for a first date than to ask for a pay rise.
• Be generous. Never confuse charisma with manipulation. Handlers may be seductive, but in the long run are harmful to themselves and to others. The charism that truly falls in love with is the person capable of giving away smiles, words of encouragement, a warm look, a detail…
• Power your personal seal. Your way of dressing, a unusual physical, a particular way of telling stories… Think about what differentiates you and get your personal seal of the trait. Here it is inspired by other persons, provided that quality can make yours.
• Practice. Being charismatic is an attitude. It is to choose to enhance the best of ourselves and of others. That requires knowing oneself and practicing hard. Remember that does not pass anything for having a bad day. Take it and smile when you feel better again.
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